 Your Life Purpose?
One of the common themes I see in people that come to
coaching, is a desire to explore what they are truly meant to do with their
life.
Most of us have a sense that there is a better, more
meaningful way to live our lives, but we can't seem to find it by
ourselves. We carry on doing what is required of us, but still this
nagging sense that "there must be something more" returns.
This search for a greater sense of their life's purpose underlies client
questions such as:
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How
can my career or work be more fulfilling?
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How
can I find more meaning in my life?
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How
can I find out what will make me feel I am living the life I am meant to.
Helping someone discover their life purpose, or helping
them choose the most meaningful path forward, is the favorite thing I do as a
coach.
To find the best path forward ... you must first look back
To find your purpose, of the most meaningful course for
your life, start by looking back at those special activities or experiences
of your life that gave you a heightened sense of being alive. The peak
moments of your life - when you felt like you were making a difference or
felt like a winner or had the experience that time either disappeared or flew
by quickly - always point to your underlying values. For example, some of my
peak moments involve special moments when I helped someone, or developed an
idea into a business, or traveled to some remote and beautiful places.
These stories reveal that some of my "core" (most important) values
are "making a difference", "creativity",
"adventure" and "being in nature".
Now these are just a few of my core values, but if we were
having a conversation about the important moments of my life, these and my
other values would come up time and time again. In other words one or
more of these values were always present in those most important
moments.
Living a more fulfilling life starts with knowing your values
Here is a simple yet powerful truth. A more
fulfilling life is simply a life where you more fully honor your
values. In other words, a life that is more in line with what is most
important to you. For example, if I have no ability to create, or make
a difference, or be out in nature, (i.e. or cannot regularly enjoy my core
values) then I feel very much off my path. I have a deep sense that
something is wrong or missing.
In contrast, to the extent that my life is more fully
aligned with my core values, ( i.e. - I have more creativity, am able to make
more of a difference and frequently enjoy moments out in nature), I feel more
fully alive and have a sense that I am right where I am meant to be. It feels
like my life is unfolding as it should.
Your Core Values point to your Purpose
When you know your Core Values and use them to guide your
decision making, you can expect your fulfillment to increase,
dramatically. It is just that simple. However you should know
that the nature of fulfillment is that an abundance of one value area, does
not make up for a deficient in other areas. In my example, if I had a
career full of creativity a part of me would feel content. But if this was
obtained at the expense of making a difference or routinely being out in
nature, I would have an underlying sense that something was missing.
Saying this another way, to experience very high levels of fulfillment you
must ensure all your core values are being honored.
It is all about knowing who you are,
where you are going, and how to best get there.
Now when you talk about anyone's Life Purpose, you can get
into a long and unproductive debate about what that truly means. Here
we will simply define it as the state of knowing that you are fully
expressed, feeling that you are living the life you are meant to live. It
is knowing who you are, where you are going, and how you can best get there.
For most people it boils down to the way you make a difference in the world,
feel connected to your higher power, others, and live fully every day..
How coaching can help
Discovering your core values and living a purposeful,
meaningful life, is one of the greatest adventures you can embark
on. Coaching can really help. In fact I am quite sure that
we are all designed to need the interaction of others to help us get where we
need to go.
Coaching is the perfect venue to work through these
important matters and I would love to talk to you about it. (Coaching with
me starts for as little as MYR1 a month (p/s:70% of your investment will be used to fund NGOs activities; and YES!, as low as MYR1 a month!!!), and you can expect to get a
great deal of value out of every single session - guaranteed!)
If you are serious about living the life you are meant to
live, and would like to set up a complimentary chat, please don't hesitate to
call or email. +6019-220-7634 or azmin2coach@gmail.com
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